Who’s Right?

The other day a colleague asked me to review and give my thoughts on their list of 10 things to avoid burnout. The last item on the list was “Know your Why.” In the discussions that followed, I found out that their meaning of that particular statement was about...

Celebrating the Coachee

Celebration is an integral part of the coaching session if we are to provide an atmosphere of hope and “can do” attitude for the client.  Sometime ago, I began to notice that I wasn’t very good at celebrating, or at least I didn’t give much verbal positive feedback....

Our Heart and the Heart of Coaching

Recently, I had the privilege of teaching a coaching class where I noticed a couple of themes that we all need to process in order to be great coaches.  Today, let me address the one that we spent the most time on:  The Heart of a Coach. This subject can be disguised...

Leading vs. Being Led

Before coaching, I definitely thought I knew what someone needed in their life. Listen to my advice and you would be successful or get what you wanted.  I had the experience, the wisdom and the track record of success, so why wouldn’t someone want to follow my advice?...

No Agenda

What happens when we have lived a life full of heartbreak, difficulties, challenging or broken relationships, health issues, etc., and are not broken by them?  Many will say we become stronger, and while I agree…we also develop wisdom.  Although wisdom is great,...